as a relatively new shooter (6 years), and someone who has owned both polymer and steel framed guns, I thought I'd throw in my 'experience'.. while I'm sure I don't represent everyone getting started, I bet my situation is not uncommon
a little background: I'm a computer guy.. and as we all know, in the computer world, newer is better, with almost no exceptions.. another hobby is sports cars.. and while there is some emotional draw to classic muscle cars and exotic cars from years gone by, from a purely performance standpoint, most cars produced in the past 5-10 years will outperform almost anything from 20, and definitely 50 years ago.. even the typical minivan with a V6 today would keep up with a stock early '60s Corvette at the dragstrip
but back to the gun thing.. I've been a handgun fan all my life, but my relatives are not the hunting/shooting type.. so I never had a mentor to help me out.. I had to figure out everything on my own
long before I bought my first gun, I watched a lot of movies.. you know, the stuff that is laughable if you have any actual shooting experience.. Mel Gibson in Lethal Weapon, doing gymnastics while never failing to wing the bad guy in the arm, so a good martial arts fight can still ensue.. never mind that his sidearm switches from a BHP to Beretta in every 3rd scene
anyway, somewhere along the line, I 'figured out' that the spec ops boys in the movies were using polymer guns.. HK, Sig and Glock.. I subscribed to Combat Handguns, and quickly learned how the new space-age material would take over the weapons world with all its advantages.. light weight (which is always good, right?

), rust-proof, and just really high-tech.. my mind was made up
let me remind you that I didn't have any shooting friends at that point to tell me about other aspects.. like "get something that fits your hand".. it never occurred to me that the fit would be important.. all I worried about was the 3 C's (sorta like diamonds).. caliber, capacity and coolness
I never looked at a 1911.. those were 'old school'.. all the professionals were using the latest and greatest (at least according to the magazines and movies).. so I bought a HK USP.. it was cool looking (at least I thought so at the time).. and the accuracy was excellent.. I could easily shoot out the X-ring if I was shooting from the bench.. but for some reason my accuracy dropped when shooting off-hand.. I could barely keep them in the paper.. and I wasn't prepared for something else.. after shooting a couple boxes of Win Clean, my hand hurt.. A LOT.. shooting wasn't as fun as I thought it would be.. so my weekly trips to the range became monthly trips
after a year or so, on one of my regular trips to the local gunshop (I actually spent more time looking at guns than shooting them), I discovered a Browning HP Practical.. it wasn't the wonderful plastic that I 'knew' was superior.. but it still had a nice look to it.. two-tone, with Pachmyr grips, target sight.. and it was the same .40 caliber double-stack that I was familiar with.. my HK quickly went bye-bye and the BHP went home
I started shooting more regularly after that, altho I still had some problems with my groups.. I couldn't figure out why... until the day this fall when I asked to see a Kimber, based on their reputation.. suddenly I knew what 'fit' and 'balance' were.. my BHP was a nice gun, but the double-stack magazine was a serious problem with my small hands.. and the Kimber can easily shoot sub-4" groups at 25 yards.. I was never able to do that with any of the über-guns I started with.. at last, shooting was FUN, and not an exercise in futility.. and as we all know, the more fun it is, the more you shoot.. and the more you shoot, the better you get
so, my story is one of learning that in some cases, the tried and true setup is still the best.. while I'm not saying that a 1911 is the perfect solution for everyone, perhaps a lot of the non-1911 shooters are 'immature', much as I was