Can't help you with your personal choice of finish..but most of the wear that you get with a Kydex holster, isnt the Kydex holster....its dust and grit that gets in and rubs between the pistol and holster. Just make sure that you keep the holster clean as thats more than half of your battle. (I wash my kydex holsters in the sink and dry them every few days of carry.) Oil on the inside of the holster makes things worse..it allows the grit to stick.