I'm guessing you're fairly new to carrying. I know most feel that way right at the start, since it seems so obvious to you. Try wearing it among friends and family to see if anybody notices. You'll probably find that unless they are looking, they won't notice.
Put on your gun, walk into the kitchen and say "Honey, in a couple of minutes I'm going to put on my gun and see if it shows". Then help around the kitchen a few more minutes and then leave. Come back after pretending to put it on and see if they notice it. If she didn't see it when you were there the first time, you're fine.
Put on your gun, walk into the kitchen and say "Honey, in a couple of minutes I'm going to put on my gun and see if it shows". Then help around the kitchen a few more minutes and then leave. Come back after pretending to put it on and see if they notice it. If she didn't see it when you were there the first time, you're fine.