If you find it isn't a mag follower problem, I'd have a look at the recoil spring. It sounds like it's either too heavy and the slide isn't getting back far enough, or, more likely, it's too weak and the slide is bouncing and going forward too fast for the lug on the slide stop to engage the notch.
That said, I suspect the lug on the slide stop is just a tad too short for the follower to engage.
Just remember, that recoil spring is critical to proper function. It should be the strongest spring that'll let the slide lock back on the last round every time with the chosen ammo load. If you change loads you should change the spring accordingly.
I suspect my opinion re the spring may create some heat, but it's based on over 50 years of building 1911's, and I'm stuck with it.