I am a new member and I have really enjoyed the great advice on this thread. I was also hesitating between a steel and an alloy carry pistol. After reading this thread and some research I just ordered a Wilson Stealth. I did pick a 9mm and in view of Bill Wilson's comments on his current 9mm, I trust that it will feed better than my previous experiences with 9mm 1911. I am adding a Trijicon RMR red dot sight: I am just past my junior years, and I look forward to keep training well past my current eye sight 
Please accept my whole-hearted thanks for all the good advice on this thread!
Please accept my whole-hearted thanks for all the good advice on this thread!