Birchwood-Casey sell a blue remover made for use on guns. Like all blue remover chemicals, it does lightly etch the steel.
Another chemical blue remover is ordinary vinegar, as some people who took the advice to use vinegar to clean leading from a barrel found out the hard way.
However, the best option is to let the finisher do it.
If you want a special polish to remove machine marks and have a mirror shine on the slide flats, companies like APW/Cogan and Ford's specialize in doing that.
These people spend 8 hours a day polishing metal and they're totally expert in doing a level of polishing few people can do without their years of experience.
In other words, you're wasting your time trying to do the quality of polishing they spent years learning.
Since the metal has to be at least lightly bead blasted to prep the surface, that will remove all the bluing so why both to remove it for them.
I'd recommend doing any metal shaping you want to do, including at least slight rounding of the sharper edges.
You don't need to remove the bluing for that.
Talk to the finisher about what you want in the order of machine mark removal and the mirror polish slide, then let them do it.
As for the extractor, hard chrome has no durability problems with it. Other than springs, hard chrome bonds very well, and stays bonded.
Hard chrome will not get under the plunger tube or under the sights.
If you want it there, remove them first.
Buy a new machined from bar stock stainless steel plunger tube, and use a carbide ball cutter to cut the small countersinks inside the magazine well for the new plunger tub to rivet into.
Send the plunger tube with the gun for plating, even if it's stainless.
When the gun comes back, rivet the tube in place.
Bottom line, unless you're extraordinarily talented or have spent years teaching yourself how to polish steel, you're not going to do as good a job as a top plater like Cogan or Ford's will do.
All you need to do is have a really good talk with them about exactly what you want, and when you send the gun in include a SHORT letter carefully addressing those details.